Saturday, 25 April 2015

Lollipop Loves...feminist hardcore and shiny things

So this week has been an interesting one. I had plans for a couple of posts and then this happened:

 I dislocated my knee cap. Quite embarrassingly, it happened at school (I am a teacher), as I was walking down the stairs. The tea I had in one hand went up the wall and the marking in the other went flying. Thankfully (?) it is not the first occurrence, so I managed to get it back in but I did have an afternoon in A&E and a couple of days spaced out on codeine.

I've had a bit of an outfitting dilemma because of the gorgeous splint I've been wearing on my leg. Anyone who knows me, knows that trousers aren't really something I own or wear. I've mostly been rocking my longer circle skirts to cover it as much as possible, but it's pretty huge. My other issue is that I have really struggled to put socks, tights, stockings, etc. on as I can't reach my feet! So leggings have been my best friend this week. The world is not ready for my pasty legs and I'm not ready to get that cold!

This brings me onto feminist hardcore and shiny things...believe it or not!
Since starting out in Take Warning (debut E.P. available here), we have received and overwhelming amount of support from all the bands we've played with. I've found it incredibly refreshing to meet so many talented musicians with similar views to me. One of the bands I was most excited to play with were the feminist hardcore band, Petrol Girls (digital download of their album is here). They are so passionate and their music really hit home with me....and hardcore isn't usually my cup of tea. They really are incredible and have such awesome messages behind their music. On top of that, they are lovely, genuine people who have been so lovely to chat to. I sincerely hope that we will get to play shows together more and more.

After we played, I pottered over to their merch to grab a copy of their vinyl and a tshirt, when I noticed lots of pretty, shiny patches and things. I still kick myself now for not snapping up the gold patch with an anatomical heart or the cheshire cat back patch to put on my 'leather' jacket. I grabbed some fliers and carried on enjoying the music.

When I got home, I read over what I'd picked up and it turns out that not only are they undeniably talented musicians and lovely people, but they run a company which creates 'cycle friendly street wear' that has a strong, feminist theme behind it. Now, I'm not a cyclist (a couple of accidents when I was learning and a distinct lack of balance has put me off for life) but I am trying to get back into yoga (when my knee allows it) and like good quality leggings to wear when I am working out. I usually go for dance brands, but I love the idea of small, UK based brands. When they released their kick starter to print high quality leggings with feminist statements, I immediately put some money in.

Reading around the subject, I can really see where they're coming from. I know that drivers can be terrible to cyclists, but I didn't realise how bad it is for women cycling around. Thinking about it, I don't know why it didn't click. A long time ago, I gave up going to the gym on my own and I try to avoid going to mixed swims because it makes me feel uncomfortable. Reading blogs like Stop Street Harassment make me so angry. The messages that House of Astbury has printed on their leggings - 'Thunder Thighs' and 'Eyes on the Road' - are there to enforce a message; women are powerful and not their for you to look at. After much um-ing and ah-ing, I chose to go for the 'Eyes on the Road' leggings.

The leggings (much to my excitement) arrived this morning along with a really cute hand written card. They have genuinely put a lot of thought into the whole endeavour. They are made of really high quality material - something I would have quite happily used back in my dancing days and I know would have lasted a long time. They were tricky to get on - a  good sign that they will hold up! - and they are really thick, with well sewn seams. The screen printing on them is the reflective part - the slogan runs down the left leg and there is a paint streak design down the left leg. Having bought lots of DIY screen printing over the years (mostly band shirts), it is safe to say that this is well done and will hold up well. All in all, a good start. The design is a silvery grey which flashes up white in bright lights.

I've been wearing them for a couple of hours now. They are actually really warm and comfortable. I can see them becoming a staple in colder months when I like to wear leggings under skirts and dresses, with thick socks and boots.

I have taken a few photos of them on with the flash. I apologise for the quality. I would quite like to get out and take some photos in these, but I took them quite quickly as I wanted to have my splint off. I will try to update in a couple of weeks with some proper photos. (Also, excuse the mess behind me!) The flash shows how well the reflective part works.



(Worn here with my Petrol Girls T-shirt)

As I am going out tonight, I thought I would put the dress I planned on wearing (a Deadly Dames piece from quite a long time ago - sorry, I can't find anything similar; the necklace is Bete Noire - £11 from here)  with them to see what that looks like - you can't see the design too well because I had to put my little splint back on but I will definitely be flashing the design tonight at the Harry Mac Ep launch.

So if you want some awesome cycling/work out gear, definitely hunt them out. These leggings will last years and are definitely worth buying. Also, if you want to listen to some really passionate hardcore punk, you can't get any better than Petrol Girls!

Hopefully I'll be able to get out and get the photos I had originally planned for this week soon.

Laura xx










Sunday, 19 April 2015

Lollipop Loves...Weddings

Wedding season is upon us! I seriously love weddings, with my wedding day being the happiest day of my life (I plan on doing a proper post about it at some point but below is a taster of our big day - the biggest smile imaginable plastered on my face!)
We don't have that many to go to this year, but my husband and I were invited to see two of his uni friends Alex and Clare) tie the knot yesterday so I thought I'd write a little post about the day and my outfit (Clare's - the bride - was obviously better than mine but I have no details about that so mine will have to do!) The wedding was in Stow-on-the-Wold, a lovely little place in the Cotswolds. We stayed a few miles down the road in Burford, a picture perfect little market town. I wish we'd had time to explore further but we plan on going back for a little getaway soon.
(One of the lovely houses along Burford High Street)
The barn venue was stunning and the ceremony took place in the grounds, so we were surrounded by stunning views of the countryside. It was a lovely little ceremony, with really cute readings - Guess How Much I Love you. So sweet! The ceremony was followed by Pimms, a selection of music that was very reminiscent of Cardiff uni days and a lovely meal that fit in with the setting. In the evening there was cèilidh dancing and Totoro cake. All in all, an incredible day.
(Seriously, how cute is this cake?)
I picked my outfit based on the fact there was cèilidh dancing: the Pinup Girl clothing Jenny Dress in lilac (no longer available in that colour but they have an incredible selection of prints and plain here for $142), the black petticoat from Vivien of Holloway (£59 from here), polka dot seamed stockings from What Katie Did (similar from collectif for £8.50) and my pink, glitter, True Love necklace from the wonderful Bete Noire (£14 from here. I asked for pink but you can get different colours, prints, chains, etc. I will be writing a post all about her lovely jewellery - I have a rather extensive collection and wear them all the time.)
(Pre wedding photo with my hair looking how it was supposed to and Kim looking dapper in his suit and Vivienne Westwood tie)
Let's start with the Jenny Dress. I own a couple of these dresses and a couple of the skirts. They are genuinely the most comfortable and versatile dresses out there. The stretch sateen looks so luxe but is incredibly comfortable (definitely good for a 3 course wedding breakfast!) and the amount of fabric in the skirt is unbelievable. The bodice is boned for structure but stretches at the back and has adjustable straps. I have a slightly curvier top half, so it means that I feel supported but comfortable. I had compliment after compliment about the dress and it felt really special to wear. Vivien of Holloway petticoats are the only ones I will buy now. I have had my fair share of cheaper petticoats but they have always felt too flat, too bulky, have stuck to my legs, etc, etc. I was always a bit wary of spending a lot on a petticoat because I thought I would never wear them enough but eventually sprung for one last year (in dusky pink). I found that because it was perfect, I started wearing outfits specifically so I could wear it and treated myself to a black one with birthday money. They are so soft and lightweight, so it doesn't feel like you're wearing a big petticoat, but they give so much volume. I found myself wanting to spend the whole night on the dance floor! The True Love necklace added the touch of fun I felt the outfit needed. Who doesn't love pink glitter? And the design is definitely fitting for weddings. I wear these necklaces so often for a cute, kitsch touch and will recommend time and time again. Beth, who makes them, is such a sweetie, and everything is lovingly hand made. Again, lots of compliments, so it was the right choice for the occasion.
(A slightly tipsy selfie, after getting completely windswept and a turn or few around the dance floor - check out the volume in that skirt though!)
Now, this isn't one of my more budget friendly (although my shoes were £25 from M&S and the cardi was cheapy-cheap Primarni.) but weddings are such special occasions and if you can't wear your more expensive outfits then, when can you? I build up my more expensive clothes over time, looking out for sales (PUG regularly has amazing sales) and using birthday money. This outfit was just the right combination of special and fun for an incredible day. I wish the happy couple a lifetime of happiness!


Laura xx

Sunday, 12 April 2015

Lollipop Listens to...Bolshy.



On Thursday, I was on the train to London, enjoying some of that rare, British sun (I know, crazy right?) and scrolling through my music selection to pick something to match my mood. I was on my way to see one of my closest friends, who I haven't seen in a long time, and it's been a pretty good week, so I needed something happy and sunny. It didn't take long to find...as soon as I hit B, I knew that Bolshy would be the soundtrack to that train journey.

Bolshy are a band I was introduced to last summer, after my husband came back from playing Dirty Weekend festival. Of all the bands he had seen, he knew they would be right up my street: sunny sounding, calypso-y ska. On first listen, I was hooked. The horns, guitars, vocals...where to start? And to top it off, a really strong message behind the lyrics, which I love. 

I soon bought their debut E.P. Radical. Anarchic, Bolshy. Scouse. (available here for just £2!) and it has been one of my go to listens ever since.

The E.P. is 5 tracks long and each has its own style, showing the variety this band brings.

Counting Fucks, the opening track, is a fast tempo number, with a zero fucks attitude (hence the name!). The layers in this song create a really interesting listening experience, drifting between clean, calm vocals and fast tempo-ed guitars, with a really dirty sounding trumpet solo (in the best possible way; I love the way it sounds!), all underpinned with a stunning bass line. A really catchy opener...I have had it stuck in my head so many times and usually when it would be really inappropriate to start singing!

The next track, Dead Worm, is a calypso inspired track, with a much calmer sound (it reminds me of Dirty Rev's later stuff.) It's a bit more stripped back but builds really nicely and is definitely one for those lovely, sunny days. Spaceman (track four) also channels this sunnier sound. It is slightly faster, with a much more urgent bass line, pulling you through with the fast paced horns and twisting vocals (I'm so envious of the singer's stunning voice!). It eventually breaks down into a more dub sounding beat, with echoing upstrokes on the guitars and complex bass line, the odd blast of horns in the background, before picking up again to the chorus.

Payroll Call is an obvious message to those who have tried to steer them away from a musical path to "regular" jobs. The sound of this song is a lot darker and dirtier than the other songs (again, in a really good way!) The shared vocals on this are a really nice touch and I would love to hear more of it in their music.

The E.P. ends on No Means No, a feminist number - definitely something which I have a lot of time for. This song is a lot heavier than the rest, which I think definitely backs up their anger towards rape culture and victim shaming. Again, this track is a journey, with some really hectic, heavy parts and some calmer parts, highlighting the talent of the individual musicians in the band. I love the bass and drums together in the break down towards the end and the alternating horns as it begins to pick up again. They really are a talented bunch!

As someone who sings for a ska-punk band (Take Warning - our debut E.P. can be found here), these guys are really something I aspire to. Can't wait to catch them live!

Laura xx

Monday, 6 April 2015

Easter dress up to calm the Viva blues

Easter weekend means one thing...Viva. I, unfortunately, have been living my Viva dreams vicariously through Instagram posts.

As a way to calm my Viva blues, I got myself dressed up yesterday to go for Easter lunch with my husband, sister in law and brother in law. The sun was shining (not quite as brightly as the Vegas sun, but the south of England isn't quite the desert!) and so I pulled out some of my pretty pastels, did my hair and instantly felt a bit better.

I settled on my new Collectif Caroline skirt in green (in the sale here) which I found for the bargain price of £16. I have absolutely fallen in love with this skirt. I was a little dubious of the colour but I can't get enough of it and have had so many compliments every time I've worn it. I wish I'd managed to find the jacket too, but I'll just have to keep hunting for that in order to fulfil my Jackie O dreams!

I paired it with a pale pink, short sleeved jumper which I bought from Tesco about a year ago (such a surprise - it was clearly meant to be baggier but I sized down to make it more of a sweater girl look). It isn't available any more, but the Annie Bunny top from Collectif would look awesome and super Easter-y too.

I finished off my outfit with one of my newest loves, Erstwilder. They make the most amazing jewellery from resin. I have the Howards Hoot Owl Brooch (£23 from here for UK ladies) They arrive in gorgeous little boxes with tea tags, which really appeals to me as a tea lover! This is the only one I own at the moment, but I can see my collection growing extensively!

If money were no option, I would finish the outfit off with the Irregular choice Mal-E bow shoes (£75 from here) and the Miss L Fire Prom Date bag ($85 from here). As it is, I wore plain black flats and a vintage bag in black from a local vintage fair. The bag is lovely, the shoes were functional!


All in all, I loved this outfit, feeling for the first time like Spring is coming. Happy Easter!

Laura xx